What is the New, “Divine Human?”

We discussed this topic on my radio show this week. If you missed it, here is the link to the replay:

http://contacttalkradio.net/CTR/carimurphy092612.mp3
 

Are you hearing the callings of your soul?

Are you hearing the internal nudges to be an active participant in your own conscious evolution?

Are you ready to participate and celebrate a new wave of unification as humanity shifts into a new era of consciousness?

Are you ready to activate and access more of your innate wisdom, love and light?

Are ready to be a catalyst for transformation?

I believe that a remembrance of what the concept of a new “divine human” means is accessed as we examine the inner landscape of our lives and our existence and decide (based on the limitations of our past experience) to make the SHIFT into an upgraded, elevated way of be-ing; a shift in consciousness. This expansive SHIFT holds the power to bring us back into harmony with our divine purpose and back into resonance with the authentic power and purity of our soul. This is a fusion of spirit and matter that allows for the birthing of a new, divine human. (Who we really are.)

We hold the power and possibility to birth a new divine human within ourselves to support the birthing and emergence of a new era in consciousness. As a global family and community, including this beautiful soul success community, we are interlinked and we can support one another to step fully into the birthing this new era of humanity that allow for the amplification of this shift.

Now is the time to accelerate our evolution of consciousness easily and gracefully and make the choice to fully embody our human divinity. What does this mean? Well, to begin with, it means to live as an empowered being moving forward in life with conscious awareness and clear intentions. It means that we are active participants in adding our divinity and light to the field of consciousness. Every single human has the innate capacity and potential to express their divinity, and yet many live under the false illusion that they are just a body. (This is where the distinction between surviving and thriving is clearly seen.) In truth, we are the embodiment of the sacred union of an individualized divine consciousness and physical matter. As human beings, we are the sacred union of spirit and matter. With that said, there are different degrees to which we, as humans, are aware of our own divine nature. There are also different degrees to which we activate and allow for the expression of our divinity.

In a practical sense, why would someone want to focus their time, energy or resources into allowing for this kind of integration and transformation? You can also look at it this way: Why move out of your survival comfort zone? The empowered response: To begin to THRIVE. I don’t feel there’s even a question of this desire and passion for those who are ready for the expansion. I believe we are coded to re-member. A divine human, from my perspective, is one that is ready to respond to the calls of their soul and re-member his or her divinity and potential without limitations, restrictions or barriers. This isn’t just about awakening. It’s about activating what’s already within us. It’s about engaging the full, infinite, limitless energy that we have and that we ARE at the core of our being and integrating that frequency into our every day lives.

Accessing our divinity and allowing our light to shine more and more brightly allows for the emergence of this new, divine human. This process of activating and accessing this light within begins with awareness. Awareness is a naturally offered by-product of spiritual expansion and growth. As we evolve, we have the option to become more conscious. As we become more conscious of our choices, their consequences, our actions, reactions, responses and overall energy, we naturally become more aware of what it is that we are creating. Then, we can choose to create our lives on purpose, rather than wait for life to “happen to us.” We can choose to release the old “default” patterns of reacting that kept in a cycle of frustration and limitation so that we are able to implement a new cycle of empowering decision making and intentional living. This awareness is where our power lies; our authentic power. In other words, as we become more clear about our role as a co-creator of our daily experience, and we take accountability and responsibility for our lives, we also gain greater confidence in our abilities and our potential to steer the vessel of our spiritual vehicle in the direction of our soul’s highest aspirations and intentions.

The “new human” is a cosmic explorer, a visionary, a leader, and a pioneer of expansive consciousness. It is our birthright and our moment to moment option to access the innate wisdom and potential available to us so that we can experience “heaven on earth” as a “new human.” As we step into our role as a pioneering generator of higher consciousness committed to living in the heart and serving humanity, we are instantly and undeniably guided and supported in perfect, divine ways so that we may experience this expansive way of “be-ing” with full grace and ease.

This way of living and being is revealed as we release old patterns and programs that have kept us stagnant in a lifetime of limitation in order to access higher levels of awareness, connect and share the fullness of our light and fearlessly integrate this joy-filled light into our every-day experience. This is about upgrading the menu of choices available to us in this lifetime so that we can shine the light onto all the previously invisible elements, possibilities and options available to us in every single moment. This upgrade allows for the unlocking our divine potential. It allows for the incredible amplification of the energies of peace, serenity, abundance and joy, so that they have the power to saturate our energy field, fill every cell in our body, heal and transform our relationships and shine through beautifully in all that we are and all that we do.

Are YOU ready to remember your true identity? Are you ready to contribute your light to the co-creation of this new era in consciousness? Are you ready to be an active participant in the activation and amplification of your divinity? Are you ready to merge your spiritual essence into your physical form? Are you ready to claim your role as a messenger of remembrance? Are you ready to live authentically, clearly, and powerfully as an empowered new human? Are you ready to live, speak and BE your truth?

If so, you’re in the right place at the right time. Not surprising, since I don’t believe in accidents! I only believe in divinely designed opportunities for growth, healing and expansion, and I’d like to thank you for reading this message right now. I am honored to have this shared vision and collective heart to heart connection with you.

With love and gratitude,

Cari Murphy, “Your Soul Success Coach”

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Discerning the Difference Between Intuition and Impulse

So,how do we know if the inner voice we’re listening to is actually our intuition and not something else, like a sudden impulse? It is a fascinating and important question to address on our journey through life. I personally feel that when we pay attention to that still small intuitive voice that attempts to guide us from moment to moment, we remain on our soul’s path with conscious intent and deliberate action. The challenge we face lies in determining what voice we’re listening to! It can be challenging to determine whether we’re receiving guidance or advice from our intuition/higher self or just the impulsive tendency that stems from our own logic or ego. It can be difficult to discern the difference if we know what signs to look for.

From my experience, impulsivity feels anxious and unsettling and it tends to create a false sense of need. It seem to stem from our ego, and our ego fears annihilation. Therefore, impulsivity kicks in because our ego fights for survival at all times. When we’re acting on impulse, we feel restless. The voice of the ego is usually critical, and it broadcasts loud and clear on the fear and anxiety channel! On some level it’s trying to protect us from embarrassments or failure. It has a job to do, it has its place, but it’s our responsibility to learn to recognize it for what it is. It operates from fear. It will only serves us to the extent that it’s trying to keep us safe. It’s looking to keep things secure in predictable patterns of the past. The ego assesses what is happening to us based on the limiting filters of our past experience and projected future scenarios that haven’t even yet happened. The ideas offered from the voice of the impulsive ego offers are usually just reactions to past that if feels could affect our future in negative ways.

Many people find comfort in listening to the ego voice, and logically speaking, it’s a valid way to go through life. It’s not out to hurt us, only to protect us and keep us comfortable in a routine. The ego doesn’t like change. While it seems like it has our best interest at heart, I don’t feel it leads us toward spiritual growth and awakening. Still, it serves its purpose. The voice of logic is the mental voice that uses past experience, probability with regard to outcomes, and reason to communicate ideas to us. It is based on knowledge and facts alone.

I like to think of our intuition, our inner voice that flows the deepest recesses of our being, as a silent, yet powerful blast of loving soul energy designed to guide us along our path. It can be likened to whispers from the soul. It is grounding and calming. It doesn’t judge and it would never harm anyone. I feel intuition stems from our higher self. Our intuition is there to guide us from moment to moment, to help us make decisions that will have a positive impact on our overall human experience, and direct us in ways that are most beneficial for our soul’s growth. Intuitive guidance and information seems to follow our life plan. Intuition always serves our well-being and development. Though it might not always feel easy or simple to trust and follow through with listening to our intuition, especially when it seems to lead us in a new direction which might requires change, intuition provides beautiful guidance that is soulfully supportive and spiritually wise.

I prefer to listen to my intuition over my logic and ego, but that is simply my personal choice. For each of us, it’s a question of how expansive we want our life’s path to be and how much we rely on things needing to remain the same. I feel that if we consciously opt for soul growth, we tend to listen to our intuition most often, and if we opt for a control or fear-based strategy (usually unconsciously) we probably prefer our ego and logic. There really is no right or wrong choice, just preferences. The best way to develop the ability to discern intuition, ego, and logic is with awareness and practice. When we learn to listen to the silence, to intuit whether or not something is best for us from a grander perspective, we naturally begin to make choices that serve to enhance the spiritual quality of our lives because it just is. It just feels right. We begin to intuit that a particular path allows us to follow the flow of our lives, while another path will throw us out of alignment.

When we find ourselves in the confusing swirl of inner messages, we always have the choice to center ourselves through meditation, deep breathing, or silence so that we will feel the difference among the messages. Once we are centered and our awareness is focused inward, we can interpret each of these messages slowly and clearly. When we become centered, our fear is reduced and we are able to truly discern the intuitive message. Whether it’s impulse we’ve recently acted on or intuition, vital soul lessons about each voice can be learned from both experiences. With each new choice and decision, action and outcome, we develop the ability to discern the difference. Essentially, intuition leaves us feeling calm and clear and leads us to greater sense of well-being. I feel that the more familiar and in tune we become with our intuitive voice, the less inclined we will be to act on impulse. It just feels better!

 

What if you realized that you could make your masterpiece even more vivid, clear, rich, and color-full? That realization and new, expansive awareness holds the key to the world of possibility. If you haven’t accepted that golden key leading to the limitless portal of opportunity, then today offers you the chance and the option to embrace it with passion, enthusiasm, spiritual strength, and vigor.

Let’s Make Some Changes Today! ARE YOU READY?

Let’s put pen to paper and dare to dream our biggest dreams!

1. Change comes from setting clear new intentions and goals. Write down three intentions or goals, in specific detail, that reveal the deepest desires of your heart. What have you put off doing? What would your personal and professional life look like if you had no limits or fears? What would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail? What is your soul calling you to do?

2. Write down what has prevented you from taking action steps towards these dreams in the past. What emotional blocks have kept you from feeling worthy, ready, or capable of reaching for your soul’s truest passions? Do you associate more pain or inconvenience with taking action that you do with inaction? Clearly pinpoint the internal blocks. Only then can you begin to make room for growth, expansion, and authentic success.

3. Write down the cost of NOT changing. What would happen if you didn’t make any conscious shifts or changes? Consider the effects on your integrity, the light of your spirit, and your self respect if you DO NOT actively begin to make choices that will place you on the path to being a conscious creator of your life experience.

4. Write down the deepest, most passion-felt pleasures and joys that would result from the manifestation of your dreams. What is it that you just love to do? What makes your heart sing? I want you to deeply and clearly feel the emotions as if your dreams and desires were already actualized. Freely and completely detail your life experience in your mind’s eye. Allow this visualization and written account to charge your emotions with anticipation for all the incredible benefits to come.  (The benefits that are your birthright, by the way!)

5. Each day commit writing down 3 things you are grateful for. Also commit to writing down 3 energy-filled action steps you can take that would lead you one step closer towards the fulfillment, peace, and serenity of your soul. These actions would be reflective of the callings of your soul. At the end of each week, look over the week’s accomplishments and notice and appreciate your passion and devotion to creating your life on purpose. Read through your gratitude list and actions steps and give yourself the acknowledgment and sincere praise you deserve. Celebrate the investment you’re making in yourself!

Make a divinely designed, clear and authentic commitment to yourself that you will continue these steps until it becomes a natural part of your daily experience. Allow these conscious steps that honor your soul to become a natural part of your daily lifestyle. Becoming a conscious creator takes practice. Once you realize the power available to you when adopting this empowered lifestyle, you will actively sculpt the most phenomenal life masterpiece that is a direct reflection of your soul’s passion, purpose and intention.

I celebrate YOU for your courage to create these new empowering patterns in your life. The rewards will most definitely be priceless… the kind your soul deserves!

EMBRACING CHANGE AS THE ONLY CONSTANT IN LIFE

Change is inevitable, necessary, and even desirable. Change is a constant in our lives. Resisting change is the cause of so much unnecessary struggle, turmoil, and stagnancy in our experience. It is only natural to crave stability in this fast-paced world of ours. But when we understand and embrace the nature of reality it becomes very apparent that change truly is the only constant. Everything is in the process of becoming something else. Expansion is a beautiful thing!

The seasons flow from summer to autumn to winter to spring. The tides ebb and flow. The cycles of the moon wax and wane. The cells in our body are constantly changing and re-creating themselves. The circumstances and people we encounter each day are different from the ones that existed before. If we look closely at our lives, we will discover that it clearly consists of constant change. Nothing remains the same – all life is movement and change. Our friends change, our beliefs evolve and change as we learn, grow, and become wiser, our work changes, our marriage changes, kids grow up, parents get older. It is the cosmic dance of change and movement, and understanding the fluid nature of our reality can assist us in being in greater harmony with the natural process of life.

We will change whether we want to or not! We simply cannot and will not remain the same. This is the law of constant change. This is the truth of who we are. Accepting, embracing, and understanding this everlasting truth can transform our lives and bring much more fulfillment to daily living. Forget stability; it’s just an illusion. It’s much better to actively participate in the flow and change. Instead of fighting it, we can choose to embrace it. It is easier to flow with the current than against it. Life is always flowing forward, bringing with it constant change.

As we actively choose a more flexible approach to life, letting go of rigidity, fear, and a pattern of fighting change,  we shift into a beautiful open space of acceptance and inner peace. The best, most effective approach is to jump into life and appreciate the flow and movement that is inevitable.

Personal change is a direct reflection of inner growth and empowerment. When we choose to anticipate change and envision ourselves evolving with each transition and challenge, we foster a sense of personal power and allow for true success. The alternative to upward spiral shifts and conscious personal expansion (soul evolution) can be stagnancy, boredom, bitterness, and even a slow deterioration and suffocation of the light from our spirit.

We can make a decision right now that we are going to say ”YES” to life and “YES!” to expansion! We can choose to jump into the river of life and say ”YES!”  We can say ”YES” to the flow, ”YES” to the rapids, and even “YES” to the dark, mysterious waters that we encounter along the way.  We can choose to say ”YES” to the unknown and “YES” to the scenery that is constantly changing on our path. We can actively and passionately say “YES” to it all. This is when the magic happens.

Comfort is the enemy of change. We think to ourselves, “Why change when things are nice and comfortable?” The fact is that life will change no matter what. Discomfort, tragedy, illness and misfortune, though always unpleasant, can be incredible sources of change and growth. We are continually called to act upon our life experience and we always have the option to grow and evolve with each turn in the road.

There is a beautiful renewal, a rebirth, a renaissance when we change old, limiting habits, beliefs and goals. A renaissance within simply means changing our priorities and redefining what’s important to our ever-evolving spirit. What was once important becomes unimportant. What was inconsequential becomes urgent. What was ignored is now given the utmost attention. This phenomenal shift of priorities produces startling changes both within and without.

We have the power to mold and shape our life experience with each symbolic brush stroke from within. Our moment to moment choices serve as the magical wand manifesting people and circumstances that are in energetic alignment with our consciousness, our beliefs, and our decisions. Amazing how an expansive shift in perception and perspective can alter our experience in beautiful ways…. and change can be viewed from the lens of opportunity. This is where the magic happens….

 

NOW IS THE TIME TO FULFILL YOUR SOUL’S DIVINE DESTINY

In my work as a Soul Success Coach, I am noticing more and more individuals coming to me who are absolutely ready to make a shift in their life; a shift that reflects the power, presence and abilities of their soul. It’s beautiful to notice so many souls awakening and remembering who they are. They are remembering that they are here for a reason and they’re ready to step into that divinely designed mission that they came into this lifetime with.

If you’ve been feeling a nudge to make some internal and external changes in your own life, know that you are not alone. The time for growth, awakening and expansion is NOW. The new energies flooding our planet hold the key to unlocking codes of authentic power within each of us. This is the time for remembrance and the time to embrace your innate gifts, abilities and skills that you are intended to refine and share with the world.

We all have gifts to share, every single one of us. Often times, we become so distracted with societal expectations or external distractions that we simply forget that we even have those gifts to share! One way to re-member your innate gifts is to take at least 3 minutes a day and get quiet. Use the power of your presence and awareness to silence the voice of the ego and the chaotic mind to actually hear the voice of your soul attempting to communicate with you.

When you hear, feel, sense, see or imagine a new idea or new inspiration, trust and honor it. Trust that this message is coming from your core. Then, act upon it and begin to make time each day to tap into that newly awakened passion that is stemming from your eternal, divine spirit. The more you commit to acknowledging, applying, refining and trusting your gifts, the more you will be given and shown.

Ready for the magic to start happening? Well, commit to finding your bliss again or maybe even finding it for the first time. There is no right or wrong or good or bad way of doing this. Just begin to trust yourself and honor the beautiful, talented, capable being that you are. Once you do this, you will pave the way for authentic power, divine brilliance and pure success beyond measure. Remember, this is who you are and you deserve to step into your power. The time has come. The time for awakening is NOW.

10 ESSENTIAL KEYS TO SUCCESS

1. Your success in life is not solely dependent upon your training, education, or ability. It also depends on your determination to grasp the opportunities presented to you. Opportunities come by creation, not by chance. Notice them and embrace them with confidence.

2. You possess the power of thought. You manifest success or failure according to your habitual thought patterns. Do you have more thoughts of success or failure? Realign your thoughts and make certain they are flowing in the direction of what you want instead of what you don’t want.

3. You possess the power of will. When you consciously choose to embrace that vital force within you and intentionally direct it towards your goals, your confidence will strengthen and you will become more effective, dynamic, and constructive in your efforts.

4. Make the decision that you will guide your mind to create only positive experiences. You will become the master of your destiny when you cease being a victim of your circumstances and steer the vehicle of your life with awareness, passion, and confidence.

5. Approach “mistakes” or “failures” as opportunities for growth. Allow them to stimulate you towards new levels of success as you consciously eliminate the chance for repeating the same “failed” experiences. This is the most ideal time for sowing the seeds for transformation and soul expansion. Shift your attention from failure to success, from worry to serenity, from mental chaos to concentration, from restlessness to peace and organization, and from frustration to determination.

6. Introspection and self analysis are key components to success. When you become aware of your shortcomings and commit to becoming your best, you consciously pave the way for progress. Decide upon your mission and commit to settling for nothing less than the unfolding of that mission.

7. Become an individual of initiative. Take daily positive action. Tap into the infinitely creative part of yourself that drives you to try new things, explore new pathways, and lead with a sense of adventure and passion.

8. Refrain from judging others harshly and instead examining your own shortcomings. Observing others is necessary at times, yet an unbiased mind will keep you focused on the real source of all that you see around you – yourself. See others from a more expansive and accepting perspective and notice a renewed sense of unity and connection with all of life.

9. Success is known or delayed by your habits. Your mental habits serve as mental magnets that draw to you certain people, situations, and events. Positive habits of thought reveal benefits and opportunities at every turn. Negative habits of thought repel opportunities for success and keep you stuck in unfavorable environments. Cultivate habits that draw the people, conditions and experiences you desire and let go of the rest.

10. In order to receive the gifts of wealth, success, prosperity and abundance, you must eradicate from your mind all thoughts of limitation and poverty. To tap into that undeniable and endless supply, you must maintain a consciousness of abundance. Even if you don’t know what lies ahead, do not focus on fear. Choose to have faith and know that new pathways will be revealed when your thoughts and actions support a consistently held success-full mindset.

Whether things are going well in our lives or if our circumstances challenge us to the core, there is something more powerful than any medicine, more effective than any counseling, and more immediately beneficial to the spirit: GRATITUDE

Even if we aren’t sensing that we have much to be grateful for, we can consciously and actively choose to shift our focus from any sense of lack we may feel or experience, to a liberating, expansive feeling of gratitude for everything that IS beautiful and positive in our lives. Feeling gratitude for something or someone attracts more of that something or someone into our experience. Therefore, to add more of what we desire into our day to day existence, we simply have to focus on genuinely appreciating and valuing that which we want more of. Gratitude is the divine tool we can use to add positive energy to existing energy that is already in our world.

We can liken ourselves to giant magnets continuously attracting more of the same energy that we are emitting out into our environment. Whatever we are feeling, whether it’s love, fear, anger, bliss, gratitude or resistance, we are in essence creating a magnetic force that attracts and draws to us the events, conditions and circumstances which directly correspond to what we’re feeling. Fearing something creates a magnetic force that attracts more of what we fear into our lives. Feeling gratitude projects a magnetic force that draws to us more of what we are expressing gratitude for.

Gratitude puts us in a harmonious vibrational resonance which naturally attracts additional energies that are in alignment with that which we are grateful for. It’s actually a phenomenally beautiful process that never fails. You may be wondering- “How in the world can I be in a state of gratitude when so much seems to be going wrong in my life?” If you dig down a bit deeper and consider this a little further, you’ll very likely emerge with a crystal clear understanding of what is actually happening.

First of all, it’s important to recognize the importance of accepting responsibility for whatever is going on in your life. Yes, I know this isn’t easy! The events, conditions, and circumstances that you’re currently experiencing are manifestations of thoughts and emotions that you’ve chosen (subconsciously or at a soul level) as well as choices you’ve made at some point in the past. Those thoughts, emotions, and choices represent the seeds of creation that eventually manifest into your reality. Remember, you are the one that thinks your thoughts. Your thoughts do not think you! In the same way, your emotions serve as a gauge and are a reflection of the quality of thoughts that you are thinking.

Just to clarify, I know you don’t consciously choose chaos. What happens is that without realizing it, you are placing your attention and focus on what you don’t want. What you consistently place your focus on, whether it’s illness, poverty, fear, or joy, love, and wealth, will absolutely be drawn into your experience. Since your current outcomes are based on what you have thought and felt consistently at some point in the past and those outcomes are now being experienced in your life, guess who created them? YOU did! Although that may not make you feel any better about them just yet, consider this…

Since it is you that is responsible for attracting and creating undesirable outcomes, then isn’t it also possible to change the thoughts and emotions responsible for creating them which will produce a desired result? Absolutely! Simply recognizing the fact that you brought them into your life (not rationally or consciously- but without awareness) provides you with an understanding of your immense creative power. This is exciting to realize. This awareness can be the catalyst that instills a new sense of gratitude for the power of choice that you have to create your life in whatever way you choose.

When we allow ourselves to feel immense joy and gratitude for even the things that we might consider small or insignificant, we allow for even greater things to enter our experience. It boils down to appreciating the blessings that we’re currently experiencing and noticing in our lives, knowing that this paves the way for greater blessings to follow. When we consciously direct our attention and focus to what’s “working” in our experience, we hold ourselves in that beautiful space.

The act of appreciating someone or something can be likened to nurturing a seedling with sunshine! We are giving that “seed of desire” the positive energy it needs to sustain itself and grow! When we choose to believe in someone or something, miracles begin to happen. Offering unconditional love provides the space for anything to thrive and grow.

Embracing an attitude of gratitude begins a beautiful cycle in which we attract even more things to be grateful for. Therefore, even if it seems as though there are areas in our lives in which we struggle or feel challenged, we can choose to focus on the things that are going well. In doing so, we draw more success, joy, and LOVE into our experience. The bottom line is this: The act of feeling grateful keeps us in energetic/vibrational harmony with our desires! It is only natural to feel sad or disappointed at times. The key is not to remain in that emotional space any longer than we have to. When we feel, allow, and accept those emotions- they gain the freedom to pass through us. In that space, we have room to expand and focus on what IS WORKING AND WHAT WE DO WANT.

Any challenging situation can be transmuted with the power of love. Love is simply the opposite of fear, and when we choose to bless even those situations that test us to the core, we transmute them into opportunities for growth and soul evolution.

Ask yourself what you’re grateful for in your life. Feel and extend sincere thanks for those individuals, situations and events. Truly FEEL the joy and allow yourself to linger in that space and soak up the powerful, radiant energies that stem from this state of gratitude and bliss. Now, remember that feeling, and purposely and intentionally return to it throughout your day.

I choose to continue to live by one of my favorite mantras… “Count your blessings and watch them multiply.” May you experience the power of this mantra for yourselves.

Wishing you abundant blessings and plenty to be thankful for, today and always.

With love and gratitude,

Cari

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